Philosophers say that you should do what u wish too, but sometimes we can't stand upon our wishes just for our elders. no matter how much grown up we are, we have the same age difference between our parents, Similar was the case with Anant and Navya who wanted to fulfill their wishes but their families didn't let them to. But as the serial went ahead smooth AnYa created a balance between their own wishes and their families and they succeeded for that. sometimes one has to come up over other's wishes and then convince them for their own wishes. AnYa were in love but they didn't cross their limits just for their families and their respect ... and we get to see this only in India! Navya separated from Anant and left to Kanpur against her wish but later the 2 convinced all that they were not wrong.. and sooner or later their families accepted the fact. they are actually an inspiration for all of them who stand in the same situation.. sometimes going against our own wishes proves very very painful but if u will to do and stand by ur wish you have the power to do anything like anYa did but balance other's wish too. But we shoult keep one thing in our minds that our elders agree to i... there's at least some mutual understanding . AnYa did the same, they didn't hurt their elders and also stood by their wishes. we say there are no age limits to learn. AnYa not only completed their wishes but also taught a fruitful lesson to their elders about these traditions & orthodox rules... and smiled...& were a big support of each other!